Let’s F*cking Date with Serena Kerrigan

From TikTok’s viral dating guru comes the definitive how-to guide to dating in twenty-first century, reminding you to put yourself first in the chaotic dating game—because you are the prize.

“There are no good men left.” “The apps have turned dating into a game.” “Peter Pan syndrome is out of control.” “There is literally no one out there for me.”

If you’ve ever muttered a single one of these phrases, Serena Kerrigan’s Let’s F*cking Date is here to shake things up. Preaching on a daily basis to her over one million TikTok and Instagram followers, Kerrigan’s finally putting all her hit lessons into one place.

This is a no-nonsense guide to putting your best foot forward and the concrete steps to take to find the partner of your dreams. This is about you first and foremost. What you bring to the table and surefire technique to help remind yourself of your own value. It’s about establishing a self-check in every step of the way to make sure you’re not getting caught up in the drama and excitement.

From teaching you that you “cannot sell what you wouldn’t buy,” to helping you figure out your non-negotiables versus your dealbreakers, to reminding you that obsession is not chemistry, TikTok sensation and dating expert Serena Kerrigan will take you through every step of the dating game—from that first Hinge swipe to deciding its time to move in together. Because it’s time to finally have the dating game work for you.

Serena Kerrigan—known to most as SFK—is the founder of Let’s F*cking Date, which started as a digital series and turned into a bestselling card game franchise, sold-out live shows, and a global community of over a million people. She is a Duke University graduate, a Forbes 30 Under 30 honoree, and the creator and star of the Peacock series. This is her first book. She lives in New York with her mini dachshund, Pancho.